Category: BDSM

J and X 2nd weekend…. BDSM? By J

A relationship moving very fast.  

Fast may not be the word for it.  Maybe crazy would be more fitting.  Somewhere along the line, I don’t even remember when it started but between the first and second visit which followed about 2 weeks later X and I had already started discussing a Dominant / submissive BDSM relationship in the bedroom!

I didn’t know if this was going to be a disaster waiting to happen or a heaven sent answer to my need to have and control a submissive.  I had never really done anything like it but we just started to go in that direction.  Being a dominant over a true submissive woman always turned me on thinking about it.  E and I tried a couple of things but she’s just too dominant and it wasn’t really going to work out.

beltA week before we met the second time I told X to choose something in the house that I could use to punish her with.  I told her I was going to start training her as my submissive and when she got out of line she would be punished.  I thought it would be a nerve wracking event for her to choose her punishment item and have to deal with that for the week before I came to meet her again.  Within seconds she sent me a photo of a belt on her bed and told me she said she found it.  I lost my breath upon seeing it.  I had no idea she would respond so quickly.

That week passed fast and before I knew it I was on a bus on Friday with a plan to return on Sunday so we could have two nights together, this time I went to stay with her at her house.  She picked me up at the station again and we went to her place immediately.  I unpacked my things and we began talking, we ended up in the bed immediately and within hours she whispered to me the question “Can I start my training now?”  I paused, worried about the implications of beginning submissive training just hours into our second visit on the first day but the way things were going I could not refuse,  plus I was excited as hell!

We did some training a while and I wanted to show her one last thing that had to do with punishment.  I mean I had to, she had picked out the belt and I had made her keep in a place where she could always see it before we had our training, I wanted her to really think about the belt before training.  I could’t NOT show her punishment and what I expected when it happened,  so I did.

I placed her over the bed and began a light session of whipping her with the belt for about 15 minutes. This was the first time I had seriously done this and I didn’t know what I was getting into at that time.  By the end I was hitting her pretty hard, her ass was welted and red everywhere, I was hitting her back and legs.  With each strike she cried out “Thank you Sir”, I was actually starting to like it.  I did give her two safe words, one when things are getting a little heavy and the other when everything has to stop.  Yellow is her caution word, she called it out three times during that session.

Euphoria, I had no idea punishment would be enjoyed so much.

We halted the session and ended up going out to the grocery store together for dinner, I was cooking for her that evening.  She explained that she liked the belting and it gave her a euphoric feeling.  I had read about this but again did not know what to expect.  I was excited because I really liked it all too, or at least it seemed that I was starting to like it.  She liked it so much that when we returned to her house somewhere during this blurry night in my mind she asked for it again, and we did it.  I think in total we had three separate sessions of spanking with her belt which I made her name for me, she called it Camilla.

Camilla is still very special to X.  The spanking continued the next evening, I had no idea her ass would bruise and welt so much, I started to get nervous.   I had to start worrying about her going to the beach and the marks on her body, she had bruises on her legs, ass and marks on her back as well.  It was sexy and I had discovered something about myself that I didn’t know existed.  Was I a sadist?

I had to quickly start thinking of other ways to punish X when she needed a swift correction.  Spanking, whipping and other forms of punishment would not be effective,  she loved it too much.