Tag: negotiations

Open relationships and our Valentines day – by J

After the subject of Valentine’s day came up I found myself set to visit X that weekend.  Complicating things further E and I haven’t spent a Valentine’s day apart in 20 years.  Being 1 day split between 3 people, a decision had to be made.  feelings can be hurt if one is left out and I am always trying to balance things between my two partners.

I decided to stay Friday the 14th, my usual day of departure and push my trip back a day to visit X.  I will also stay 1 more day through Monday so we have a little more time together. It is not ideal but there is so much give and take by all parties I hope things get back to normal in time.